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Wed, Apr. 5th, 2006, 03:48 pm
dondelanooch: Anal Sex, facts and fiction?

I'm inquiring to the ladies out there about that thing that "popular" thing (as of lately I think) that is anal sex. I know of only a few people that have tried it and even less that like it. I'm just curious whether or not it's actually just a few that enjoy it or maybe that I'm not talking to the right people. Anywho aside from that, is there anything that could make the experience more enjoyable?

Wed, Apr. 5th, 2006 09:09 pm (UTC)

I've tried it a few times because I must REALLY love my bf lol, but all in all, I didn't like it.

It can be fun if you're into it, but, obviously, don't forget to have lube with you or it's gonna be no good.

Thu, Apr. 6th, 2006 12:24 am (UTC)

I'm posting under an anonymous account to ensure the privacy of my partners, but anyhow...

I'm a guy who has tried it a few times, and I'd definitely agree that the more lube, the better. One of my ex girlfriends that I did it with said that although anal penetration didn't really feel good or bad, it made clitoral stimulation better. From the "giving" perspective, it's definitely a lot of fun, but most of the girls I know who have tried it could really take it or leave it.

So, I certainly don't think it's any more fun than straight sex for both partners, but it might be better for the giving partner. I don't know a whole lot of people who have tried it, so I dunno about it being popular...but my two most recent girlfriends have both wanted to try it, so I guess people are at least curious. I think it'll only be pleasurable if both people really want to do it, but given that they are it can be very hot.

Thu, Apr. 6th, 2006 03:51 am (UTC)

I like it. I also agree with what the guy above me's ex said about it makes clitoral stimulation much better. And the more lube the better. I think it's more a personal preference, but it's fun every once in a while.

Wed, Aug. 30th, 2006 06:05 am (UTC)

It can be good for women, especially because the g-spot can be sort of stimulated from the other side. Things that help do include lube and clit stimulation, but bar-none it's easier when the couple feels safe and relaxed arond eachother... especially after the girl's orgasmed at least once (tends to relax certain muscles).