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Wed, Mar. 29th, 2006, 08:16 am
dondelanooch: Not really about sex, but then again

Well this is more about my current relationship. Ok I've been with someone of 3 years, or almost 3. Anywho lately we hit a problem. She cheated on me (actually this is the third time), however we'v always patched things up, except things are different now. She cheated on me with someone who I thought was my best friend around here. Now things DID get patched up between me and her but it's different, I don't feel warmth from her lately, she's been having other issues but she won't let me in. Whenever I try to be romantic she blows it off as corny, and she makes no attempt at being romantic herself. I'm not asking for what to do, I'm just wondering if there's someone that's been in this situation and if they have, do these signs represent a corrosion of the relationship or is it something that will "phase" out?
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Wed, Mar. 29th, 2006 05:55 pm (UTC)
dondelanooch: It's more complicated than that

It's not htat I don't have self respect. I have alot of self respect which is why it's so hard. It's going against everything "that I believed" but she's been through thick and thin (literally the worst 3 years of my life when I had no one else) and it's hard to lose that support. I know eventually I have to stand with my own two feet, but at the same time it's hard, I tell myself that a relationship is built, it just doesn't happen. Maybe I'm diluting myself, but I'm just confused really. Thanks for reply though :-)
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Wed, Mar. 29th, 2006 07:44 pm (UTC)
dondelanooch: Re: It's more complicated than that

Touche, I guess I'm just jaded. I have hope. Doesn't mean however that I don't have moral back bone or something like that. I just have never been in this situation. I guess it's one of those "live and learn" ordeals.